Every person finds themselves attracted to different personality traits, different physical characteristics, and different bits of experience.
This means when people ask me "What do men want?" or "How can I get her to be more into me?" I have no real answer.
Men are easy, if they get to eat, sleep, and get some pussy on the side they are mainly content creatures. Of course there are extras, such as...
You need to shut the fuck up and listen to what they have to say.
You need to be (or at least pretend to be) interested in what they say.
Ask for help even if you don't need it (Nature wins over nurture in this case)
Give space for guy time or private time.
Be sure to have your own ambitions/life.
Be there when they need you.
Tolerate their interests.
Seems simple enough to me, it's not rocket science. I don't understand why so many women can't figure out how to maintain a relationship, or why they can't figure out why they send men running in the other direction.
As far as women go they are a bit more complicated, yet the list seems shorter. They need attention, affection, and respect.
Once again you should listen to what they have to say, listen to them bitch and moan about things that seem pathetic to you. Offer your advise to prove you have been listening, absorbing, and contemplating along side them.
You need to offer reminders of how much you love their physical and intellectual features. A light finger trailing across the sneak peek of flesh that makes an appearance along the small of her back, just above her jeans with a soft moan close to her ear is enough.
Respect her body although being fucked like a toy can be fun from time to time, a good passionate romp shows that she means more to you than just a quick ram. Respect her dreams by helping her push forward, see other sides, offer different options, or words of encouragement. Respect her life by giving her space, and trusting in her.
Each gender should obviously put forth an effort in their appearances, but every individual finds separate things sexy. One woman may love your beer belly, one man may love your thick thighs or broad shoulders. The best advise that can be given when it come to the physical is to say "Fuck what everyone else thinks, strive to be who you wish to be." If you can find happiness with yourself, within yourself, then you deserve someone who cares for you the way you care for yourself. Why bother trying to fit into someone else's sex appeal if you don't fit into your own.
Ladies and Gentlemen, there are the keys to the opposite sex.
Now please shut the hell up.
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